Sometimes No Hope is OK

 

It is never good to be without hope.  But, on the 270th day of 2021 it was OK that I was without.  Because, the evening of 9/27/21 was the initial showdown for the Eagles with the Dallas Coqboys.  And they were shellacked.  As I predicted to Greg at our from desk in the Franklin Building as I left for the garage.  Greg, as a Saints fan coming off a big win this past weekend, chuckled under his breath but he knew I was right.  And I barely made it to halftime.  I had no thoughts, during that game, that they would come back and win.  So I guess, as important as having hope is, sometimes no hope is OK. I mean I still have hope for much in my life, and I even have hope (false as it may be) that the Phillies will make the playoffs and get past the first round.  When it comes to sports, no hope IS likely better than false hope.  Because sports are not real.  Even if they often cause pain, but also joy and elation.

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