Hopes for Unexpected Friends

 

I made a new friend on the 44th day of 2021.  Funny thing is, I did not realize it at first.  You see, I was at the Pool on 2/13/2021 and was aqua jogging again (got up to 75 laps!)  And, while I was in Lane 2, there was a swim lesson in Lane 1.  There usually is on Saturday, no matter which slot I get.  Today, there was Michael.  Michael likes to race me when he is having his lesson and it amuses me and, honestly, makes me go faster (even though I let him win each lap).  But, the best part today was when Michael decided he wanted to switch lanes.  He asked me to stop for a minute (so I did, running in place) and his mother and the instructor asked him what he was doing.  He said, "hold on, I have to tell my friend something!"  That made me smile and I realized, even in a pandemic, new friends are being made, even if in non-traditional places.  We have not been able to see many people during this quarantine but I am happy that, despite that, Michael wasn't worried.  He saw a nice person, and wanted to be a friend.  Tonight I have hopes for unexpected friends.  Make new friends and keep the old as the saying goes.  Let's all try to befriend someone new today (but, of course, from a safe distance).  

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